A woman of noble character: my nugget

Our children were getting restless because they were bored. So, I thought we would do something we’ve not done in the past: we retrieved a pizza dough recipe and decided to make pizza just for the fun of it. While adding the brown sugar to the rest of the ingredients, my 13-year daughter asked, “That’s it? Are you sure? Can I see the recipe? (She thought she could follow recipes better than I).”

So, I handed her the recipe; she glanced at it, then I took it again, and continued to read the ingredients for her to add on, “1/2 tsp of salt,” I said.

“Why do we need salt?” asked my 9 year-old daughter.

“Well, because salt will help the dough stay soft and taste good,” I answered not really knowing if it was true.

The ingredients in this pizza dough got me thinking about Luke 6:38: “Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over,…” For several months now, I’ve been pondering on this verse; trying to understand the true meaning of it. Actually, just trying to understand what it means “good measure, pressed down, shaken together, and running over.” But, while I was watching and measuring with my daughter, God showed me this awesome nugget truth about the above phrase. Duh! (Of course, God didn’t say Duh!) When we measured the ingredients, we made sure it was precise (at least my daughter did) to the recipe. To make certain that the dough turned out as the recipe called for, we put in the exact amounts of ingredients. Likewise, when God measures our rewards, He makes sure the amounts are just right.

Hmmm! What about pressed down? When my daughter measured the brown sugar, she pressed the sugar to make sure she has pressed hard enough, to ensure that that was all the spoon could contain. I was imagining how God measured our rewards, our gifts, He presses hard enough to get as much in as possible. He wanted to make sure we are full of His goodness and blessings.

Shaken together. I was watching Ratatouille with my children during this Christmas break, and Remy (the mouse cook, also the main character in the movie) was tasting the things in the old lady’s house kitchen: he took a bite of the cheese and savor it; then he took a bite of a strawberry and savor it; then he took a bite of each together and savor it. While he was savoring, they showed fire crackers and running swirls to express how good it was putting the ingredients together. Mmmm, mmm! Anyhow, Remy’s point was that things taste different, (in his case in point, better) if you put them together. As I was watching that I thought “When God adds in all of my rewards and gifts, He carefully shakes them together to create one powerful product. And, when all is done, He will present to us His “just right” reward-one powerful, wonderful blessing that we can do nothing but savor it. Wow!

Running Over. God doesn’t just mix it good, but He gives until it is running over. Malachi 3:10 says, “…see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that you will not have room enough for it.” When my Father gives His rewards to me, He does not withhold any portion of it for Himself. He gives me more than I can imagine. He opens the “floodgates of heaven”. It is much more powerful than the landslide or the earthly flood. Notice, it says “floodgates” (plural). He would not just give one. He multiplies our giving.

This new revelation was so deep and so wonderful, I felt exuberant. God has been so good. And, He’s teaching me His goodness and joy. He’s helping me to understand His word’s deeper and gave me the ability to apply it to my life and share it with you today. He’s helping me to develop my noble character His way. Praise the Lord.

A Woman of Noble Character stands firm in her faith

“… ‘Do not be afraid, Stand firm and you will see the deliverance the Lord will bring you today. The Egyptians you see today you will never see again. The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still” (Exodus 14: 13-14).


I’ve been observing my children every Christmas. I have nearly four days left and still have not bought any presents. Here’s why: partly because of financial reasons and partly because they cannot wait until Christmas day to open their presents. In fact last week their aunt brought them some presents to put under the tree. They couldn’t wait, every time I came out of my office/bedroom; they told me a present is accidentally opened. It’s always the littlest one who did it. Sure, blame it on the defenseless. Anyhow, three of them discovered they’re getting picture frames. The other? A pair of shoe. Oh, my.

Then I felt so bad that I haven’t bought them anything, so I went to Dollar Tree to buy their stocking stuffs. Immediately after I filled their stockings and left the room, they all went and peeked in. At dinner time, they all tattled on each other. They all told me what they got. Their father didn’t utter out a word. He shook his head in disapproval and ate quietly. Me? Well, I threw my hands up in the air (not literally), “that’s it, no presents this year.” Then, they all turned to each other with blame.

“Good job, Elishua,” said Abia

“What you talking about?” reputed Elishua

“Jamin did it, too,” said Gaosoua.

“How do you know, you …(I’m working on teaching him pure language)” said Jamin.

“Okay, children, stop!!!” I shouted (I know it’s bad to shout, especially for a woman in the process of developing her noble character, but it couldn’t be helped). And, all is quiet.

What is it that makes us so anxious about life that we cannot wait, even for the good things in life to happen? As we were arguing during dinner, I was thinking about Adam and Eve when they sinned and God asked them why they disobeyed Him, they blatantly blamed it on one another. I’ve had conversations with women who blamed Eve: “If only Eve didn’t sin, we wouldn’t have to go through such hardships.” Sure, Eve may have started it, but what about me? What could I do to develop that noble character that every woman desire but fall short?

In Exodus 14:13-14, Moses told the Israelites that all they had to do was stand still and they would be delivered from the Egyptians. He said, “Stand firm…” Just believe. Isaiah 7:9b said, “If you do not stand firm in your faith, you will not stand at all.” Wow! Such a strong statement, yet so true.

I’ve come to realize that no matter how close my Egyptians (whether it be financial, mental, or physical challenges) are, God is able and willing. All He requires of me is that I stand firm in my faith. Trust Him. Trust in Him. Believe that He is able and willing to deliver me from all of my troubles for today. And tomorrow when I wake up, He is already there ready to assist me. So if I desire to develop that noble character of mine, I need to stand still, even with the challenges approaching and surrounding me.

Lord, thank you for your faithfulness toward my anxieties. Help me to be still enough to see, and to hear, to feel Your presence in my life. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

God came through once again

Dear Sisters,

When we least expect it God is faithful and delivers us from our most stressful moments and causes. Yesterday, I have received the most incredible gift of all, a new washer. My washer broke two weeks ago and I've been asking God for it. Now, God has delivered. Not just a replacement, but a brand new washer. Isn't that incredible? Thank you for those of you who prayed for my situation. Thank you to the one who gave. God bless you all. It can only get better.

Please, be encouraged, for God sees your needs as well.

Christ alone brings peace,

Shoua

A woman of noble character is being refined?

“But he knows the way that I take; when he has tested me, I will come forth as gold.”
Job 23:10


I’ve worked very hard on trying to enjoy Christmas even on this interesting journey that God has put our family on, but I think last evening really showed the true nature of me. My son, Jamin and daughter, Tabitha (a second grader and kindergartener, respectively) have asked me to buy them each a book for their class Christmas exchange program. I’ve put it off for two weeks, and finally, yesterday, afternoon, my son came home from school; and as soon as he entered the front door, he said “mom, this is the last day I have to bring that book.”

“Really?” I asked. I really wished that he would’ve forgotten about it instead. Financially, it is not possible. You see, for the last several years, I’ve lost two accounts for my quilting work ( I don’t call it business because it’s not really a business, just a little work to supplement the income) and the one account that I’ve have is cutting back because she’s getting ready to retire and her biggest wholesaler is quitting. So, we are really pinching our pennies. Yes, even a dollar for a book is hard to come by. I am counting my blessings for we’re not homeless.

Anyway, I had to go to the UPS Store to send my finish quilt tops off to the shop, so I decided that I will take two dollars off of the gas envelope so my children will not have to show up without a present for exchange, but my attitude was very “sour”. I was not a happy camper. When we arrived at the UPS Store, the lady charged me more than I’ve expected it. I said, “I thought that it was cheaper to ship to a business? It normally only cost me $8+, not $9+.”

“Well, this is the cheapest price we’ve got. It might have gone up just a tat,” she said firmly.

Well, what choice do I have but to ship the package? I wanted the money to come back on time for Christmas. As you know, (if you’ve been following all of my bloggings on other people’s blogs), I’ve not bought any presents. So, I barely smiled back at the clerk when I left the store. Then, just as we were getting in the car, my children were all wondering if I was really going to take them to store.

“Mom, I thought you was going to take me to Dollar Tree?” Jamin asked.

“Mommy, and me, too. Are you going to buy a book for me, too?” Tabitha asked.

“Mommy, can I get a Christmas card for my teacher, please? I want to give her a present and I want a card to go with it. Can I please, Momma?” said Gaosoua.

“Hey, children, settle down. If I said, I’m going to take you then I’m going to take you, okay?” I said. Ohhhh, I felt awful. Where was my noble character? “Help me, God. I’m trying to stay humbled and kind. I am not going to take that bait. I am going to remain calm and cherry,” I said under my breath.

“Sorry! Just asking?” said Gaosoua. Just then, my oldest daughter, Abia, has arrived home and had called to check in, wondering where we were. I told her we were at Dollar Tree and to keep the doors locked. I parked the car in the parking lot, and everyone was trying so hard to keep mommy at peace. They were all trying to get little Elizabeth off of her car seat. I brushed Gaosoua off the car, and picked up Elizabeth. I carried her off into the store with the rest of them trailing behind.

As we approached the door, they all rushed before me, and Tabitha said, “Mommy, here’s the paper wrappers,” point at the gift wraps beside the entrance.

“We’re not buying any wrappers. We have plenty of them at home,” I said.

Then, we stopped at the card stand, and Gaosoua panicked, “mom, there’s no Christmas cards for teachers. All of these cards are for someone in the family (not her exact words).”

“Go on the other side,” I said with a moaning sigh still carrying Elizabeth on my hip and leading the way. We finally picked up two cards, one for my mom and the other for her teacher. Then, we walked to the books. They each picked a book to their liking (I tried to influence them to buy a “better” book, but of course they were determined to buy their choice of books). Finally, we’re at the check-out line, and I realized that we have no scotch tapes. “So, I’m going to have to spend more than $3. Oh, well,” I thought.

We paid for the merchandizes and left for the car. Elizabeth was just as happy as can be. And, she had nothing in her hands. She didn’t even get to walk around the store. Everyone was happy, except mommy. What was wrong with the picture? Well, basically, I only had $20, and I’ve spent $14. Now, I’m down to $6 and still need toilet tissues, napkins, and wash our clothes at the laundry mat because our washer is broken. So, I was as sour as can be, but deep down I knew that God has blessed us beyond comprehension. So, I got in the car, turned on the engine, and turned on the Christian music station.

I was determined to my noble character, so I came home with Abia waiting at the door without opening the door, of course that was her order-whenever mommy is out of the house, no one is to open the door, whatsoever, unless of course there’s a fire. The only wrong thing was she was standing at the door, so if I was a crook, I open the door, and there’s my target. Anyhow, I smiled, walked to my room, dropped my handbag on my bed and walked right out to prepare supper.

I knew in my heart that I’ve lost my “noble character” yesterday. I was so upset because I had little less than what I needed. If God was to test me yesterday, I didn’t come forth as gold. Thankfully, our Father is full of grace and mercy. He said, “See, I have refined you, though not as silver, I have tested you in this furnace of affliction.”

I know this Christmas will continue to present its challenges, but I also know that God is faithful and just and will not let me face these circumstances beyond what I cannot bear. So, the next time you feel a little less noble; remember God is still refining you as He still is refining me. In building this noble character, I’ve learned to rely on God alone because to be called a “woman of noble character,” “a woman after God’s own heart,” “a virtuous wife,” etc. only God can know and refine us well enough to come forth as gold.

Lord, I am so glad You are lord over my life. Forgive me for being so sour yesterday. Thank you for the peace of today. Help me to reflect on Your love for us this Christmas. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Stalling for Time

Dear Faithful Friends,

As the Holidays approach, let's not forget what this season is really about.

I will be back to write soon. I must go run my errands now before the UPS store closes.

In the meantime, be thinking of reasons why you would stall for times during this season.

Always,

Shoua

A woman of noble character captures her enemies

“Catch for us the foxes, the little foxes that ruin the vineyards, our vineyards that are in bloom.” (Song of Songs 2:15)


A woman of noble character captures her enemies. She recognizes that in the midst of her relationship with Jesus, she has enemies who try to ruin her believe, her faith, her courage, and her strength (all of these are in the process of continual growth). She takes actions to put her enemies in captivity. A woman of noble character recognizes that this is her charge from God. It is an order. A challenge, in which, God calls her to be obedient through her actions. God says, “Catch ...” In other words, take action.

A woman of noble character recognizes that she benefits from the actions she takes. “Catch for us…” God didn’t say “catch for me,” He said “catch for us.” He wants her to recognize that she will benefit from her actions to contain the enemies. This reminds me of our children’s sports participation. Every time our children participate in a sport, we cheer for them, we can very well play for them, but it gets us excited just from watching them play, because they make us proud when they play well. We stand on the sideline and cheer, calling out their names, telling them to take actions that we see that can lead them to victory. Our benefit of their victory is pride of conveying the strategies for them to bring on that victory. Their benefit is the pride in recognizing the strategies that we or their coaches give to them and put them into actions to bring on the victory. Thus, we all benefit from the same victory, but from different perspectives. A woman of noble character recognizes that the benefit of victory is hers as well as God’s.

A woman of noble character recognizes her enemies in disguise, little foxes. Little foxes, Biblical terms, represent mischievous annoyances or behaviors. Thus, God is calling, charging her to take actions to keep these behaviors from disturbing her peace, spiritual growth, graces, comforts, faith, etc. In order for her relationship with God to grow progressively in the right direction, a woman of noble character must catch her little behaviors that hinder her spiritual growth. Notice, the verse says “little foxes”. Small things, small actions, or small behaviors that seem harmless can lead to dangerous and disastrous outcome.

Let me share with you my personal experience. In my early years of ministry with my husband, I became interested in horoscopes. I didn’t actually believe in them, but I liked reading them because it was fun. Sometimes, it seemed obvious that it was totally out of reach, but sometimes it was so real that it produced “wows” for me. I didn’t go out and buy them, but I read them in magazines while waiting at the doctor’s offices or in line at grocery stores, even in Penny Savers paper. While reading them, I knew that God ultimately holds the power over all things. I also knew it was sinful to believe in horoscopes and palm reading. But, I thought it would do no wrong to read just to pass the time. And, it wasn’t that I read it everyday. It was only once in awhile.

However, little by little I was taken by it. I was consumed with its skeptical view of my God’s love. I was placing my hopes in it. I read it and waited for the outcome. When it didn’t come true, I would be disappointed.

Fortunately, God loved me enough to call me back: every night when I fell into a partial sleep, a black spirit would fly in from the window (I could hear the cold swashing sound) to consumed my body, it started from my feet: my feet felt numb and it quickly passed up my body. I was totally immobile until I called on the name of Jesus, then it disappeared and I was free again. This continued more and more often until it happened even when I took naps in the day time. I was afraid and confused.

But, what finally turned me around was the fact that the enemy used my husband’s hands to choke me one night. As we were sleeping, I felt his hands clutched around my throat, choking me. As I struggled to break free and called on the name of Jesus Christ to help me, I felt his body turned completely to the other side and released my neck. I elbowed him and yelled at him for choking me, “Why were you choking me?”

“What are you talking about?” he said as he turned his head toward me. “I didn’t choke you. You must have been dreaming.”

“I was not dreaming. I felt you choked me and you just turned around right now,” I said as I struggled to catch my breath.

“I didn’t choke you. You must be crazy,” he said.

I was so puzzled by the whole deal. I couldn’t find a reason why my husband was trying to choke me. I knew we were having problems, but it was not enough to take my life. I was restless. I prayed to God to help me. He revealed to me that I was placing my hopes and faith in the wrong places. While it started as an innocent time passing action, it took my attention from God’s love to the hope that the little readings of the horoscope would come true for me, instead of believing in God’s provision for me. I kneeled down to pray and cast out the spirit of darkness in the name of Jesus. I repented and God set me free.

A woman of noble character does not practice sinful acts or believes. She does not allow the little foxes, whatever hindrances, to interfere with her spiritual relationship with Jesus Christ which is in constant growth (this is the most dangerous time). Isaiah 7:9b warns that, “If you do not stand firm in your faith, you will not stand at all.” A woman of noble character captures her enemies, preventing them from disturbing her faith in Jesus.

Lord Jesus, thank for your constant love and encouragements for your children, teaching us to take the necessary actions to prevent our enemies from destroying our spiritual growth. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

A Woman of Noble Character Recognizes Her Beauty Through God’s Eyes

“You are altogether beautiful, my darling, and there is no blemish in you (NASB)…You have stolen my heart, my sister, my bride; you have stolen my heart with one glance of your eyes with one jewel of your necklace (NIV)” – Song of Songs 4:7, 9


Previously, I’ve mentioned that God calls us “darling…my beautiful one.” That God valued us. He cares about us. He loves us. Thus, a woman of noble character recognizes her worth: she knows that she is worthy, she is valuable and she is His masterpiece. Today, I want to go into dept on God’s view of her beauty. He says, “You are altogether beautiful, my darling, and there is no blemish in you.” Not only are you beautiful, but “… there is no blemish in you.” A woman of noble character recognizes that God’s view of her beauty is much more important and worthy.

A woman of noble character understands that in God’s eyes, she is perfect. He created her in His own image. He is the potter and she is the clay. He chose to put a certain formula into the creation of her. And, when He finished, He said it is good. She’s good. He loves her just the way she is. He sees no blemish. He’s very pleased with her. He put that mole there for His enjoyment. The freckles on her face are there for His enjoyment. Whatever she doesn’t like about herself, He put it there for His enjoyment. And, if she is displeased with any part of her, He is sad because in His eyes, “there is no blemish in you.” He sees her as altogether beautiful. A woman of noble character recognizes that she is altogether beautiful without any blemish.

A woman of noble character recognizes that her glance steals the heart of God. “You have stolen my heart with one glance of your eyes.” A woman of noble character recognizes that when she looks up to God, He is pleased. In the New American Standard Bible, it says “you made my heart beat faster”. She gave Him a glance and His heart skips, beats, or is stolen.

This reminds me of the time when we were teaching little Elizabeth how to kiss. We would point to our cheek and repeat the word “kiss”. And when she finally recognized our instruction and followed, we were all so happy. We laughed, we clapped our hands, and tried to make her repeat the process. Just as we were happy to see Elizabeth’s kiss, so God’s heart leaps for joy when we glance at Him because He sees no blemish in us, but beauty. He enjoys our beauty-His creation. He enjoys, even our glances.

A woman of noble character glorifies His name forever with the satisfaction of her own being. She’s happy with the way she looks, the way she talks, and the talents she has. Her only desire is to gaze upon God’s love and beauty and to make His heart jump for joy because He has captured her glance and still sees no blemish.

Father God, thank You so much for the love You’ve faithfully demonstrated to us. Thank You for seeing us more than we see ourselves. Help me to see myself as precious, beautiful and without blemish; to enjoy the true beauty You’ve created in me. In Jesus’s name, Amen.

A woman of noble character recognizes her worth in seasons of life

“My lover spoke and said to me, ‘Arise, my darling, my beautiful one, and come with me. See! the winter is past; the rains are over and gone. Flowers appear on the earth; the season of singing has come, the cooing of the doves is heard in our land. The fig tree forms its early fruit; the blossoming vines spread their fragrance. Arise, come, my darling; my beautiful one, come with me.” –Song of Solomon 2:10-13


I’ve never really acknowledge Song of Solomon as love relationship between Christ and our human soul. I’ve always dismissed it as love conversations between human lovers and never took it seriously. So, as this is my devotion today, God revealed a beautiful message that gave me a new meaning from the above passage:

1) A woman of noble character recognizes her worth. God calls her His “darling,” His “beautiful one”. Wow! He says, “Arise, my darling, my beautiful one, ..” What a wonderful value He has placed her. As a woman of noble character, she recognizes her worth as dearly loved, cherished (Dictionary.com), one who is highly valued by God.

A woman of noble character recognizes that she is His masterpiece, His workmanship (Ephesians 2:10). And He created her for His enjoyment, for His purpose. She is His beautiful one. That means He loves her. He loves her. And now, He’s calling her to rise up. He wants her to get up from whatever problem she may be drowning herself in. His command is firm and loving. He’s calling her to rise up, get up. A woman of noble character recognizes that she’s not glued to the ground, to her problems, or her situations. Get up. Arise! No matter how she looks at herself, she is His darling, His beautiful one and He calls her to rise up.

2) A woman of noble character recognizes His instructions. His second command was to “come with me.” “Come with me,” He says. He doesn’t just want her to get up and stand there. He wants her to come with Him. He wants her to take action; follow Him. He has many things to show her. A woman of noble character longs to see God’s vision for her life. She wants to see what God wants to show her. If you are that woman, follow Him. He’s saying “come with me”.

3) A woman of noble character recognizes the end of her winter season. She knows that her rains are over and gone. “See! the winter is past; the rains are over and gone.” Whatever her problem is, it’s gone. It is done with. Her season of troubles is gone. There’s no more. Therefore, rise and come with Him.

This message reminds me of a time when my children played tags, my oldest son grabbed a hold of my baby girl’s shirt tail. He wouldn’t let her go. She pulled a couple of times, but couldn’t break free. So, she stood there and wailed. After a few minutes, I commanded him to let her go, he let go, but she stood there and cried as if he was still holding on to her shirt. I called out to her to come, but she stood there and cried pitifully. I kept on calling, and it finally dawned on her that she was free. Sometimes, we are like my baby girl. We stand there and cry. If that’s you today, God is telling you that your “winter is past; the rains are over and gone.” Rise up and follow Him.

4) A woman of noble character recognizes her spring season. “Flowers appear on the earth; the season of singing has come, the cooing of doves is heard in our land. The fig tree forms its early fruit; the blossoming vines spread their fragrance.” Wow! God reminds her that after the winter, spring does come. And He calls out to her and reminds her that it is time to get up and see the flowers bloom and smell the fresh fragrances. She recognizes that there’s sunshine after the rain. She understands that in the spring, flowers bloom, trees buds, grass turn green. She understands that every circumstance brings with it many benefits: After every crisis; she’s wiser, she gains knowledge, finds directions. She gets the answer to her prayers. A woman of noble character recognizes her spring season and rises up to follow God. She hears His voice calling out, “Arise, come, my darling; my beautiful one, come with me.” And, she follows.

Father God, You're awesome. Thank You for reminding me that I am your darling and beautiful one, that I hold value in Your eyes and You love me. Help me to recognize Your calling voice to come with You; to recognize that my problems are behind me. Help me to see and enjoy the benefits of springtime; the answers to my prayers. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

A Woman of Noble Character abides in Jesus, part II

“If you abide in Me, and My words abide in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you,” (John 15:7, NASB).

Last week, I wrote that a woman of noble character abides in Jesus. Today, I want to take you to the second part of the verse; “If you abide in Me, and My words abide in you…” Now, not only will you abide in Jesus, but if His words abide in you, you can have anything you ask in Jesus’ name and it will be yours. There are three ways His words can remain in you:

1. Read the Bible daily and let it be your guide. Before you take on the challenges of the day, take out your Bible and spend 5 to 10 minutes a day, reading the Bible.

I used to think, “with my schedule, I’ll just read when I have time.” But, before I knew it, time flew by without notice. Day after day, I still didn’t read the Bible. The point is you don’t ever have time. Everyone has only 24 hours in a day. You just have to prioritize and make time for God. When you pray, you’re talking to God, but when you’re reading the Bible, God is talking to you. And, without reading, you may be missing your message from God for the day. So, a woman of noble character spends time reading the Bible, or allowing God’s words to abide in her. You’ll be surprise what message God will give you to live on that day.

I remember a time when I was reading through the Old Testament and I was so bored, but I felt led to read through the whole Bible slowly so that I would understand the Word. I was at the part where they were being told to follow all the different sacrifices to God and I couldn’t find any application to me whatsoever, so I prayed, “God, I’m sure you brought me here for a reason. But, I don’t see any applications here for me and I’m getting really bored. Please, show me Your message.” And, as I was reading through Numbers 33, God spoke to me through verses 55-56. God showed me that I had a lot of bitterness to get rid of. In order to receive a new life, a new beginning, I must get rid of all my bitterness and unforgiveness. God showed me what my next step was, even in the most unexpected places.


2. Memorize the verses that jump out at you while you were reading. I’m sure there were times when you’re reading a chapter or two and certain verses stood out that really touched you in a special way no one else would have the same effect. That is your message from God.

There was a group of Christian women who gathered together monthly, and during those times, they would play games, eat and pray together. Well, as they were playing a game, the leader brought out a board with John 3:16 written on it. However, there were some words that were missing. The rest of the ladies were to complete the verse by filling in the missing words. Much to the surprise of the leader, the women didn’t know the verse. They all knew what it says, but they couldn’t remember well enough to complete the verse and she had to give them the answers.

My point is, memorize the verses well enough to fill in the blank. Know what the verse says and means. When you know the Bible, you know God’s character; you understand His heart; you know how and what to ask for in prayer which will always be a yes, because you would never ask anything that is not aligned with His will for your life. After all, you are a woman of noble character who God dwells within.

Allowing His words to abide in you is also a map for you to live a live pleasing to Him. Psalm 119:105, “Your word is lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” His word will guide you and teach you in the direction which you should go. His word will give you the advice you need to make the right decision. His word will give you discernment on a critical issue in your life. His word will give you wisdom and understanding on raising your children or honoring your husband. His word is your map, your direction, your guide to live a holy life while you’re on earth. And, I cannot imagine any woman of noble character who does not want to follow His lead; or, anyone who could truly be a woman of noble character without His words abiding in her.

3. Put His words into actions. Act out His words. Live it out. John 15:16 (NASB) says, “You did not choose Me but I chose you, and appointed you that you would go and bear fruit, and that your fruit would remain, so that whatever you ask of the Father in My name He may give to you.” We are to bear fruit of whatever we learn. What’s knowledge without actions? If we learn what His words say and we know it, but we never put it into actions, then we are not truly His friends; we have not truly allowed His words to abide in us. John 15:14 says, “You are my friends if you do what I command you.” His command is that we live our lives to bring Him glory by putting His words into actions so that the world may see our good deeds.

As women (wives) of noble character, we need to abide in Jesus and allow His words to abide in us. In order for His words to abide in us, we must read the Bible daily, memorize the verses that stood out to give us directions, and live out what you learn from His words. And, you will truly experience the blessings of the woman of noble character.

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Dear Friends,

I've not been blogging since August. I took some time off to build a better blog site to serve you. I pray that you will visit my new website at www.mrsproverbs31.com. Once in a while I will post the same blog on here as well as Mrs. Proverbs31. However, my energy will be spent at MrsProverbs31. So, come on over and let's learn together.

See you there,

Mrs. Proverbs31

A Woman of Noble Character abides in Jesus, part I

“If you abide in Me, and My words abide in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you,” (John 15:7, NASB).

A woman of noble character abides in Jesus out of willing obedience. In order for us to truly understand what it means to abide in Jesus, we need to understand what abide means. Abide, in www.dictionary.com, means to “remain, to continue, or stay;” or “to continue in a particular condition, attitude, relationship, etc. lasting.” Thus to abide in Jesus is to remain, continue or stay in Jesus.

When you stay with someone, let’s say your husband, you talk to him, you stay in a visible distance. You can hear his voice and he can hear you. You know his whereabouts. You know his character. You know what he likes to eat and how he eats. You know what kind of clothes he wears. You can smell his fragrance. And, you know his attitudes toward certain topics or subjects. In the same way, when you remain or stay in Jesus, you know Him. You understand His desires for you life. You practice His rules and commands. You know what He likes and what He doesn’t like. You know that He is present in your life. And, you abide in Him passionately.

A woman of noble character desires to have this intimate relationship with Jesus because Jesus is the good shepherd and He knows us. If we are His sheep, we also know Him (John 10:14). And, if we know Him, we will recognize His voice when He calls us and we will follow Him (John 10:27). To know Jesus is wisdom above all else. Ephesians 3:19 says that “…to know the love of Christ which surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled up to all the fullness of God.” When you know Jesus, when you abide in Jesus, then, you are filled with the fullness of God. And, that’s being a woman of noble character.

The business side of Mrs. Proverbs 31

Last week I've posted an article by Rob Parnell. If you are interested in his tips, go to www.writersecret.com.

This week, I want to give you an opportunity to evaluate a possible business on the side. If you enjoy reading books and writing, you need to see this. The website is: www.bookwise.com/shoualo.

I want you to know, I am working to give you more information than just give you Spiritual encouragements. However, your Spiritual Relationship is more important than anything else. I have so much I want to share with you. But, now I must go and prepare supper for my family, one of my important duties.

Come again.

Revealed - the ROAD MAP by Rob Parnell

There's no secret to success. As the saying goes, success leaves clues. There is a map.
Ask anyone who believes they're successful and they will happily tell you about it - the right moves they made, the deals they struck, whatever. They may have worked hard, they may have been lucky, they may have found a secret of their own.
It's individual.

What's clear is that there are as many ways to become successful as there are people. This is good news. It means that YOUR way may not yet have come to pass. It just needs YOU to do it.
Success in writing is often nebulous. Our friends and families might only regard us as successful if we get on the news or get a mention in Who's Who, but this is wrong.
A successful person is happy, is not hampered by what they can and can't do, and is to some extent in control of their destiny.

How does this apply to writers? Well, a successful writer is a person who makes a living from it, enjoys what they're producing and has some idea where they're going - and feels capable of getting there.

You don't need to be rich and famous to be successful as a writer. You can be a good writer - and successful because you don't have to do anything else to keep yourself afloat.
There are thousands, hundreds of thousands of writers that do this.
To constantly compare yourself to JK Rowling and Dan Brown and feel like you're a failure is ridiculous - and yet writers do it all the time!

Does a bricklayer worry because he hasn't been asked to create another Hadrian's wall?
Does your average engineer worry because they haven't built a bridge as good as one of Brunel's?

Does a doctor feel a failure because he's not Sir Hans Christian Barnard?
Perhaps.

To become a successful writer you need to travel the ROAD. And, in this case, ROAD means:

Read, Observe, Acquire (skills) and Do.

R.O.A.D. Geddit?

Writing is about talent sometimes but most times it's about learning the craft. Reading books and observing people and events will get you a long way into the mindset of a writer. Then, acquiring the skills necessary to put your thoughts on paper is the lifelong task. Knowing grammar, correct punctuation, stylistic elements and developing simple communication skills may be something you learnt at school. But if you want to write for a living, you need to continue that education.

Especially if you want to dedicate your writing to particular areas - be it fiction, non-fiction, article writing or whatever. You need to study those areas to familiarise yourself with the territory and know how to compete.

And what about the map I mentioned?

MAP is an acronym which stands for: Motivation, Application and Persistence.

This map will get you wherever you want to go, whatever your goal.

During the motivation phase you need to come up with lots of reasons why you want to succeed at a particular task. Motivation is not a mood. You can't wait around for it to strike. You can't buy it at the 7-11. It's a force within that is waiting to be unleashed. You have to know what you truly want. You need to think about it and latch on to that special something that makes you excited, gives you pep to continue, get you up in the morning with a fire in your heart.
Too many of us ignore the spark - the thing that will make us special - in favor of the mundane, the workaday, the 9 to 5. Find your spark, your spirit enclosed, and free it.

Application is what you do - your efforts, your sweat, your dedication. Here's a clue. Every day, make a list of five things you need to do to achieve your goals. Then pick the one that will give you the most pleasure, the one that will fill your wings and help you soar. That's application.

Persistence? It speaks for itself. Once you know you're good at what you do - and that means learning the skills and requirements of your chosen field - you have to keep going. Many writers stop or get disheartened too early, before they really know whether they can be successful. Mistake. You have to believe in what you do. If you don't, you need to return to the motivation stage and work out what it is that you want. You can't follow the MAP otherwise. Persistence only works if you believe what you're doing is right.

Rejection and lack of interest will kill you if you don't believe in yourself and your work. The good news is that if you do believe in what you do and persist, that puts you in the top 1% of creative talent. Your work and enthusiasm will carry you forward and onward.
So remember. You may not have the secret. But you do have the ROAD MAP!

Keep writing!

Rob@easywaytowrite.comCreating Better Writershttp://easywaytowrite.com
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"Writers will happen in the best of families."
Rita Mae Brown

You're Not the One

One of the stories that really touched my heart is the story of David, Israel’s king. David had a thought as he was basking in God’s love. He wanted to build a house for God (the ark). So, God revealed His plan for David. 2 Samuel 7:1-17 tells us that as David revealed his plan to Nathan and Nathan blessed David’s decision, God came to Nathan saying “When your days are over and you rest with your fathers, I will raise up your offspring to succeed you, who will come from your own body, and establish his kingdom. He is the one who will build a house for my Name, and I will establish the throne of his kingdom forever (vs.12-13).” In other words, God is telling Nathan to tell David he’s not the one to build the house for God.

God is telling David that He has taken good care of him so far and will continue to care for him until he dies. God raised David to be Israel’s king, to unify the nation of His people, but David will not be the one to build His house. He has already had someone else in line to do that job. And for David to build the God’s house would not be His Will.

We each have a specific task which God sent us to complete. However, some of us may not see it as a blessing or that we’ve done enough, so we may want to do more for Him. As you rest in your comfortable home and life, are you thinking as David had? Do you want to do more for God than He has intended for you to do? Are you planning to do something not aligned with God’s will for your life?

I urge you to pray for God to reveal His will for your life today. As He has said in Jeremiah 29:11 “For I know the plans I have for you, …” Cling onto His Word and pray for Him to reveal that plan so that you can get on with it.

Father, You are awesome and majestic. We praise you and give you thanks for the many wonderful blessings you have poured upon us. Teach us to align our plans with Your Will for our lives. In Jesus Name, Amen.

What's on your mind?

I have a little 15 months old girl. And, I am amazed at her awareness of my whereabouts. It doesn't matter where I'm at, she will always find me when she needs me. Today, she came knocking on my bedroom door, calling me. As soon as I opened the door, she giggled and raised up her hands as if she was saying, "pick me up, mommy." I picked her up and she curled up with both of her arms around my neck. "Aaah, you poo poo hah?" I said as I rubbed her back gently. With her on my left side, I grabbed her towel and she gave me a big smile.

Elizabeth is an active child, so she only comes to me when she's hungry, sick, tired, or as in the case above has a dirty diaper. But, as a mother, I know that she comes to me because she knows I know her: I understand her feelings. I can identify the need by the way she cries. And, it got me thinking about how God knows us:

Revelation 2:2 "I know your deeds, your hard work and your perseverance".

Revelation 2:9 "I know your affliction and your poverty-..."

Revelation 3:8 "I know your deeds. See, I have placed before you an open door that no one can shut. I know that you have little strength, yet you have kept my word and have not denied my name."

Jeremiah 1:5 "Before I formed you in the womb I knew you,..."

God knows us. He knows what's in our mind before we say anything. Luke 5:22, "Jesus knew what they were thinking..." He knows. He understands us. And, no matter how many passages I provide you with, the fact remains: God knows.

So, I hope as Elizabeth knows when to come to me and for what reason, that you also know God and when you need God that you know how to find Him.

Father, bless all of us women, men and children alike. We are grateful that we can come to you in our greatest desperation and you will comfort us. In Jesus Name, Amen.

Pull Your Weeds

Hi everyone,

It's been nearly two months since I blog. I know. I know. Every time I dedicate myself to do better, I ended up doing worse. It's like the Apostle Paul said, I do the things I know I shouldn't do and don't do the things I know I should. It is human nature, but still is no excuse.

Anyway, I've been dreaming away with the "urgencies" and not the "importance", so as I was responding to life's urgencies, I've neglected not only you readers, but I've neglected my garden as well. It had been a week since I stepped outside to look at my garden for two reasons: 1) I was plainly busy, 2) it was raining. I simply couldn't go pull weeds in the rain. When it finally stopped raining, I went out and no longer could I see my veggies. My garden was covered with grass weeds. And, my plants shrank. I couldn't believe my eyes. Has it been that long? I had no idea. I had to register it into my mental box and get out there as soon as possible.

After a few days, I went back outside to pull all the weeds out. I thought to myself, "how in the world am I going to pull all these mess out?" I felt like running my lawn mover over it, but a voice inside said, "pull one at a time, before you know it, you will be finished." So, I began pulling the grass and weeds one handful at a time. And as I was pulling the weeds out, I was bitten by mosquitos and ants. I get bad infections with ant bites and quite itchy with mosquito bites. But, two hours went by and I finished one half of the garden. I was impressed with myself.

I started to wonder about my life's mess. financial debts, depression, children's behavior, house cleaning, etc. I felt out of touch with reality. Sometimes, I would sit there in front of my computer reading my emails, but understood nothing. A few hours later came back to read the same emails over again because I didn't delete them (weed it out). That process ate so much of my time. As much as I wanted to get rid of the mess in my life, I had no clue until I was pulling the weeds out of my garden. So, could I pull my life's weeds one handful at a time? Could I get it finished as quickly as I did my garden? My life was a mess. It still is, but I have peace now: One weed at a time, one day at a time.

Our Spiritual life have weeds, too. If we don't tend our Spiritual life, it will get weedy and choke our energy, time and relationship with God. You know the: "I'll read the Bible when the kids go to bed" or "I'll pray when I'm able to concentrate on the words I want to say to God" or "I can only talk to God when I'm totally in tuned with myself." And, before you know it, you have lost your love for God. You're spiritually thirsty and hungry. Nothing is able to satisfy you. Nothing in life is going the directions you intended. Then, you wonder why God is not attending to your needs. Where is God when you need Him most? Right outside your door, ready to come in just as soon as you open it. Revelation 3:20 says; "Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with him, and he with me." Are you ready to enjoy great meals with God again? Make room for God's Word to grow in your life today. Pull out all those weeds. Get rid of the unnecessary things in your life. And plant God's Word into your life today. When you plant more fruits and vegetables (God's Word), they will choke the weeds to death and your life will be nothing less than fruitful.

Oh, what about the bites? Yes, when you pull out the weeds, there will definitely be painful bites. As I was bitten by the mosquitos and ants, I just kept on focusing on the maturity of the fruits and vegetables in my garden. I couldn't let the weeds or the bites get in the way of my vegetables' growth. So, when you pull the weeds of your life out, know that God has great things in store for you. Jeremiah 29: 11 says: "For I know the plans I have for you, ... plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." The bites are temporary. God's plan for you is the one to last forever. Listen, hear God, and obey. Spend time to get to know God. It is who you know that will prosper you. Sure, the ants and mosquitos will bite and weeds will come back, that's why the Apostle Paul says in Ephesians 5:15-16 "Be very careful, then, how you live--not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil." The more reasons to spend time with God. Plant God's Word in your life today. Start small. Memorize a verse for the entire week. And, when you don't know what to say to God in prayer, why don't you just repeat the verse back to God with your heart's participation (claim God's words to be your prayer). And, God will answer you.

May God bless you with His grace and mercy, today.

Shoua

What to say to God in the midst of trouble

Sometimes life is not fair, but it can be worse. When we think that it is the end of one problem, another one occurs. When we finally pay off one debt, a surprise bill arrives in the mail. When we are healed with one ailment, another health issue appears. So, when does it stop? Let me illustrate it with a couple of experiences of mine before I answer that question.

November of 2004 has got to be one of the worst month of the history of my life. I was driving on the same road, on different days, of course, but in the same month. I was convince that November and St. Andrews Road was cursed with destruction. Anyway, one of the thing was, my husband and I had just picked up some of the furnitures from his aunt who was moving away. So, we drove home with my husband ahead of us in his uncle's Toyota truck while I was driving my Toyota Previa (in case you don't know much about cars like me, that's a van) with my daughter (at the time she was only two years old) sleeping in her carseat. We were fine until we were about two miles away from our home. My husband had passed the light and I had just passed it about 20 ft. when I heard this sqeaking noise-more like ewwwwbonk.

Yep, you guessed it. I was reared ended. My bumper was dented and my china cabinet was broken (without my knowledge), but the lady begged and begged. "What the heck were you in such a hurry for!", I yelled. She acknowledge my anger with "I'm so sorry. I just came from the Kroger pharmacy. I have this terrible allegy. I didn't feel good. I tried to stop, my car just slipped." And, she continued to beg me not to call the police because her insurance would kick her out if they knew that she was involved in another accident. "Please, please, please? I'm begging you. Please." At the time she seemed serious about paying for the damage (no, she didn't pay). So, my husband took down her information, and I was to take my car to the garage she specified and she would than pay for the damage.

Now, before that issue was resolved (It never was, I just decided to forgive her and myself for believing her and went on with my life), I sent my kids to school and came back home on the same road. I remember I was following the bus and a compact car with a sticker saying, "children study better hungry". I also remembered following several cars. I mean the road was busy. I remembered looking at my speedometer and saying to myself, "oops! I'm driving too fast." I was driving 45 mph. So, I slowwwed down. Suddenly, from the time I was aware of my speed to the time the police stopped me, it was just two miles, no more. All the cars in front and behind me disappeared into thin air, except the cop. Aaaaaagh.

Let me tell you, I've never been so afraid. But, waittt! As it wasn't bad enough, my daughter-yes the same two year old daughter-got out of her carseat, came in between the two front seat, stuck her head right beside me and said, "hi", waving her hand at the police. I closed my eyes, tilt my head back (ouch, my neck was stiffed from stress), and said, "Tabitha!". The officer looked at me with sincere acknowledgement and said, "it's alright, I saw her before she got out of her seat." Whew. I was ticketed for violating school speed zone, only.

I was so afraid. I had never been stopped by an officer before. Never, not while I was driving. I was miss perfect. And, oh, I was talking to God before I was caught, too. So, I relunctantly took the ticket from the officer, put my daughter back in her carseat, buckled myself, and shifted the gear onto "D", and continued my conversation with God. "God, how could you allow this to happen to me. I was talking to you. To You. How could you! When will this stop?" Shaking my stiffed neck, "So, is this what you want me to write about? Will this experience help someone someday?" His voice was soft and affirmative, "My grace is sufficient for you."

Just thinking about it right now, stresses me out. But, knowing that God is in control. That He sees all the things that are happening in our lives. That He understands. And, He knows whether or not is our fault. And since, Christ is superior to all things above and below, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me", (Philippians 4:13), including the officer who had the audacity to hand me the ticket and wished me to have a good day. I can handle it.

God also gave me Hebrews 12:11 "No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it." God loves us and wants the best for us. The wait may seem long and the troubles may seem like they will never end, but it will. We are commanded to wait patiently and understand that God is God and He has everything under control, including our enemies. This should be music to our ears.

Many years ago, a friend told me that when the evil spirits wrestles with him, he said, "go right ahead, I may die physically by your hand, but I will live in Christ. The sooner I die, the sooner I will be with Christ. Though, you may have my body, Christ has my life." That rings so true.

Proverbs 24:10 says, "If you falter in times of trouble, how small is your faith!" Ouch.

Remember Our God is not just any god, He says that He will supply all of our needs. Also, Psalm 16:7 says, "When a man's ways are pleasing to the Lord, he makes even his enemies live at peace with him." Wow! What a wonderful promise. That means that when we are obedient to His Word, He will cause our enemies to do things for our benefit. Our enemies will live in peace with us. Aaaaah! How sweet it is that I am a child of God. Remain in the Lord today and experience His grace and mercy, sufficient for all of your needs. Whatever problem(s), you may have right now, don't give up. Trust and expect God to answer you. Someone once said that if you pray for rain, bring an umbrella with you as you're heading out.

Until next time, have a blessed day.

Half-full

Good afternoon. I hope that all is well with all of you. I've already broken my promise to blog every week. It has been two weeks since I blogged. And this was only the beginning. I have no reason and no excuse. All I have is the truth: I was struck with depression and numbness. Actually, I began to blog before Mother's day. I had a beautiful peace to dedicate to my mother. I was almost finished when my computer went dead on me and it took all I had put into the blog. I was frustrated, so I stopped. Besides, my family had to eat.

Although, I had not had a chance to sit and put my thought together, one family occasion kept on nagging me. So, let's get on with it. Instead of continuing to justify why I chose Mrs. Proverbs 31, I want to turn your attention to something very familiar. Something that we hear all the time, but never really truly reflect or dwell on it too long or enough to recognize how it plays in our lives.

As I was driving down the highway with my children, my oldest questioned me about herself and how she should handle one of the comment she received from her school mates. I was in a pretty good mood, so I returned her question with a question. I said, "it all depends how you look at it. Is the glass half-full or half-empty?" And, before she could answer me, my son said, "you should always look at it as half-full, that way, you know that you will get more." I was totally awed by his explanation. Until that day, I've never gain the true meaning of that analogy. I congratulated my son for his insight, and my daughter gave him a nasty look. The sibbling war had begun.

The point I want to make here is that we are all love by the Lord. Each time we are given a special opportunity, we are to look at it as half-full so we make an effort to be sure we will receive the rest to fill it up. The Bible says that if we are not faithful to small things, how could he trust us with the bigger things? So, today, if you received something other than what you've expected. Less than you've imagined. Thank Him and believe that there's more where that came from. God loves you and continues to plan your future for you. Trust Him. Act on what you have right now and He will bring more to fill your glass.

I want to challenge you to live your life as though the glass is half-full. Keep it open to receive more. God is not finished with you yet.

See you soon.

Why MrsProverbs31

When I chose this name for my blog, I know that many may think, "why MrsProverbs31?"
MrsProverbs31 is an inspiring character whom I hope to be one day. By far, I am not Mrsproverbs31. MrsProverbs31 is our space. Our community. A place for us to share our knowledge, strength, and wisdom. If you are anything like me, you will desire the character of the woman found in Proverbs 31:10-31.

The characters and strength of this woman: She is worthy (v.10, 25, 28, 29), well respected by her husband and children (v.11, 28), makes good choices (v. 12, 13, 18), a hard worker (v. 15, 17, 19, 21-22), compassionate (v.20), a business woman (v. 13, 18,), and wise (v. 25). Because of her strong character and faith, her husband gains respect from his neighbors and communities.

Due to my experiences in seeing so many women give up in living for Jesus because they just can't see themselves in the role of Proverbs 31's woman, I create this community hoping to inspire you to live by the characters of this woman. In a lot of ways, many of us are wearing many hats. We may not be as successful as this character, but we are in our own ways, Mrs. Proverbs 31. Most of us are mothers, wives, business professionals, and are highly respected, but we never view ourselves as Mrs. Proverbs 31. I think it is due to our own vision of her being the perfect woman. The Bible says, "noble" not "perfect."

But, the Bible also states that we all have sinned and come short of the glory of God (Romans 6:23). Because Mrs Proverbs 31 is a woman. She, too, fall short. She's noble as many of us are noble. But, only God alone is perfect and sinless. Agree? I sure hope so. We fear judgements and criticisms. We fear failures. We fear . . .and we fear. . . and we fear. . . No matter what we feel inside today, I challenge you to live your God given call.

MrsProverbs31 should be every woman's goal in living to our fullest potential. She should inspire us to live by faith and in peace. If it wasn't possible, God would not have breathed the words into the author's heart to put into paper. Therefore, live for God, by God and in God alone. But, shine to the world in your living for Jesus.

More to come.

Meet MrsProverbs31

Hi all,

I have been studying a lot these days. Most of the studies that I do have to do with marketing and self-development materials. How I got here is this: About 9 months ago I started with Herbalife as an independent distributor because I was desperate to make a financial change in my life and my daughter Elizabeth was newly born, so I didn't want to leave home. Thus, my life with Herbalife began. No, I'm not going to sell you on Herbalife, but if you are interested, my website is still up. Check it out at www.shape-team.com. Though, I may take it down so that I can focus on MrsProverbs31.

Anyway, as I was working on recruiting new downlines, I realize how sad and upset people are. It began to burden me with thought of creating a home for people to come to and relax, get to know themselves better. Now, before I get you all confused in all, I had no knowledge of self-help products. Thanks to Herbalife and my upline team, I learned that I couldn't be successful unless I do some self-improvement studies. WOW! My initial thought was they promised to provide me with a proven step-by-step system. What in the world are they trying to take my money for now? Remember, money was an issue for me. Anyhow, as I started to recruit and more people say no to me, it began to weigh down on me heavily. I was angry at my mentor for lying to me that this was a simple business. All I needed was a willing spirit/attitude (That was my thought, not the true nature of my mentor).

Am I jumping all over the place? I hope not.

Back to the anger. I began to search what successful people have that I don't? What can I do to produce that happy jolly personality so that when people say no to me, it wouldn't hurt? The first book I turned to was: Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. I couldn't put it down (some parts are simply boring-the part about Carnegie and his steel plant got me lost). I grabbed onto anything I can get it cheap; marketing tools and whatever help I can get. I was desperate to succeed. Dispite all the grabbing and promoting, I realize I lack something: persistence and perseverance. Most of all, I hate calling people (I generally hate it when telemarketers call me, too). I dragged the "dials", the calls. The more people hung up on me, the more I desire to quit Herbalife, although they have fantastic products. I believe I can be successful because they have superb supporting systems and training, but boy, the calls? I was just not crazy about.

Anyhow, as I experienced more and more hung ups, I realize that a lot of people are still in the dark about life, about themselves. They may be clueless as to how to change their lives. They don't want to be sold, they want help. Although, Herbalife may be the ticket to many people's freedom, I lost my belief that it could be mine. I want to do something that would give people gratifications. And, because so many of the things that I learned are so good, I want to pass them down to people who desire a change in life. Thus, MrsProverbs31 is born. I have to admit that I got the name from reading The Confident Woman by Joyce Meyer. So, thanks Joyce.

I chose MrsProverbs31 because she's a very knowledgeable individual. She's multi-tasked. A very hard worker, indeed. Many of us over-worked. You think about it, you as a women hold many positions: You are a mother (if you are), a wife (if you are), you volunteer at your children's school, you may play the piano at church, or lead the church choir, you have your day work to earn money, you transport your children to and from places, etc., etc. But, when you get stuck or want more in life, where's the one place you can turn to? Hopefully, it would be MrsProverbs31

So, my goal with MrsProverbs31 is to provide self-help resources to all women. We as women are so multi-tasked and not very much appreciated. Since I'm still at the learning phase, I would hope that many of you who are experienced in certain areas would be willing to share your expertise in your area. In return, you get your free advertisement through me and you provide chance for those who are desperate to change but have no way out-this is the greatest reward of all.

More to come later.

MrsProverbs31

P.S. please let me know what you think. This is a beginner's idea. Please, be gentle, but frank and honest. How else do you think I will learn?